Marriage and Mental Illness

Daily life

Seems sometimes that I have to push, push, push M. to do anything. I know that this is part of the illness, but dang I get tired of it. Sometimes I feel like a nagger, but if I don't push nothing gets done.

M. sometimes throws a curve ball out at me that I don't see coming. I will think that things are humming along and then he will say something like, "For the last 2 weeks, you have not been very nice to me." And it is just like getting slapped. So what have I done.? Usually he can't come up with anything or if he does I have no idea what he is talking about. I know it is in his head, But, it still makes me feel like crap. I gave up long ago trying to fix him, fix our life. Live with it. That's what I have to do.
It's not fair, but nothing is....