My life's Adventure

my brother and I not getting along

My brother has been supporting my mother and I and is now feeling the pain of this. He feels we take and take and don't give back. I know this is the case. I have asked him to stop supporting us financially. I don't like him being angry all the time. He also puts up a lot of defensive barriers and rudeness when we criticise him. At least he calls it criticism. I am thinking I am advising him. We seem at odds. He is carrying a lot of family weight. I can't use my self help techniques with him. Also E doesn't like my rudeness which I get from my family. I am also becoming a bit adversarial because of my law studies. I am learning more about how to question authority.